Blessing for a Marriage
by James Dillet Freeman May your marriage bring you all the exquisite excitement marriage should bring, and may life grant you also patience, tolerance, and understanding. May you always need one another - not so much to fill your emptiness as to help you to know your fullness. A mountain needs a valley to be complete; the valley does not make the mountain less, but more; and the valley is more a valley because it has a mountain towering over it. May you need one another, but not out of weakness. May you want one another, but not out of lack. May you entice one another, but not compel one another. May you embrace one another, but not out encircle one another. May you succeed in all important ways with one another, and not fail in the little graces. May you look for things to praise, often say, "I love you!" and take no notice of small faults. If you have quarrels that push you apart, may both of you hope to have good sense enough to take the first step back. May you enter into the mystery which is the awareness of one another's presence - no more physical than spiritual, warm and near when you are side by side, and warm and near when you are in separate rooms or even distant cities. May you have happiness, and may you find it making one another happy. May you have love, and may you find it loving one another. |
Ooh, I like that. Hope you are well.
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Hi Paulissa,
ReplyDeleteI just now found where you wished me a Happy Anniversary. Thank you so much. I haven't been on the computer much this week as my daughter had surgery on Monday and came home yesterday. I have been helping her with food and shopping. She is recovering nicely though.
Thanks again for the beautiful writing and for you taking the time to remember that it was my wedding anniversary.
Iris
Oh dear, now you have two thank yous from me. I didn't realize my post won't go up till approval. sorry about that.
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No problem Iris. I put comments on moderation for a little while until the unmentionable decides to give up on flooding me with spam and comments that others would find upsetting.
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